{"id":1977,"date":"2010-08-23T09:45:05","date_gmt":"2010-08-23T17:45:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/midlifedog.com\/?p=1977"},"modified":"2010-08-23T09:45:05","modified_gmt":"2010-08-23T17:45:05","slug":"am-i-a-fraidy-dog-and-who-cares","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/midlifedog.com\/index.php\/a-dogs-life\/am-i-a-fraidy-dog-and-who-cares\/","title":{"rendered":"Am I a fraidy-dog? And who cares?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you&#8217;re heard the expression &#8220;fraidy-cat.&#8221; Our cats aren&#8217;t afraid of anything, except maybe the vacuum cleaner.<\/p>\n<p>My mom has been worried that I&#8217;m turning into a fraidy-dog. Here&#8217;s what happened. One day we went to Regrade Park, the off-leash park that&#8217;s just two blocks away from our new home. A big dog jumped on me. I demanded to leave. We did.<\/p>\n<p>Then a few days later, the same dog was back &#8230; and the same thing happened. Now I hate going to the park.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, I haven&#8217;t been crazy about that park for awhile. I&#8217;m not as young as I used to be: I&#8217;ll be eight in just two months. That&#8217;s getting into senior dog status, my mom says. So I no longer want to jump around with a bunch of high-energy younger dogs. I like sitting on the wall and letting Lindsay, Sue, Andy, William or some of the other humans make a big fuss over me. On very rare occasions, my mom allows me to accept a treat. That&#8217;s even better.<\/p>\n<p>But now I tug on the leash when we walk to the park. As soon as we get there, I head right to the exit with a purposeful expression.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh no, Gracie! We just got here!&#8221; my mom says. &#8220;We have to de-sensitize you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For help she turned to Andy, who&#8217;s a professional dog trainer. He had a great idea. Treats. LOTS of treats. &#8220;Special treats just for the park!&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Liver bits?&#8221; my mom suggested.<\/p>\n<p>Yaay. I love liver bits.<\/p>\n<p>My mom is no dummy, although you might wonder at times. I get peanut butter only in the crate so I love my crate. If I get liver bits only in the park, she hopes I&#8217;ll learn to love the park. I&#8217;m not so sure.<\/p>\n<p>After all, my mom isn&#8217;t a great example of bravery. She&#8217;s not crazy about water, heights, shaky bridges and a bunch of other things that she won&#8217;t let me share here. When she bought a house in Florida, she got Keesha because she didn&#8217;t want to be alone in the house with just two cats. Did I mention that she also had a perfectly functioning alarm system?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If I get another house, I&#8217;ll need a second dog,&#8221; she tells me. &#8220;You&#8217;re not ferocious enough.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My mom&#8217;s getting older, too. Unlike me, she refuses to admit it. Yesterday she dove right into a zumba class where she was probably the oldest person by twenty years. That&#8217;s the equivalent of me joining a pack of three-year-old feisty dogs and trying to keep up.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t tell<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fitmonkey.net\" target=\"_blank\"> George the Fitmonkey<\/a>,&#8221; she told me as she limped out the door to take me on a walk. Her hips were sore from all those &#8220;swing your booty&#8221; moves.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When I have to give up these gym classes, I&#8217;m giving you to Bill in New York and joining the great aerobics class in the sky.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I could say a lot but I value my treats, not to mention my regular high-priced food and walks with Aunt Sara. So I&#8217;ll leave it to my followers to fill in the blanks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you&#8217;re heard the expression &#8220;fraidy-cat.&#8221; Our cats aren&#8217;t afraid of anything, except maybe the vacuum cleaner. My mom has been worried that I&#8217;m turning into a fraidy-dog. Here&#8217;s what happened. One day we went to Regrade Park, the off-leash park that&#8217;s just two blocks away from our new home. A big dog jumped on &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/midlifedog.com\/index.php\/a-dogs-life\/am-i-a-fraidy-dog-and-who-cares\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Am I a fraidy-dog? 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